Find a sperm donor with FSDW/ DIY Baby- the safest & most supportive website for single women, lesbian and infertile couples looking for a private sperm
donor through the internet. Free support, donor agreement documents, advice from The Child Listener™. Donate sperm and help women- you choose
who to donate to, and make your own arrangement. DIY Baby™ Offer CHOICES. Welcome!

DIY Baby - Creating Dreams- Choices for Single and Lesbian Women, Infertile Couples. Alternative parenting in the modern world!
DIY Baby Home Page- Welcome! Contact Emma - creator of FSDW/ DIY Baby! Find your own DIY Baby Hero! Search for a sperm donor within the Member's Only Area- Subscribe to FSDW/ DIY Baby- and that's all you pay!  Be a DIY Baby Hero- donate sperm privately to help single women, infertile and lesbian couples around the world  
  • The Child Listener created FSDW - now also known as DIY Baby™- in 2004, and has since helped thousands of single women, lesbian and infertile couples become parents around the world. She runs the site herself, and personally answers every email - offering advice & support relating to conception through alternative methods, to would-be parents who are committed to meeting the needs of children born as a result. She is changing this site- thanks for your patience while pages are completed
  • Please help Emma to promote intelligent and responsible sperm donation practice, and quality parenting practices. 'It's not just about pregnancy'
Being a parent seems to be so difficult for some- often for those who want it the most. Emma, The Child Listener, aims to offer more choices for everyone- and including donors. Our DIY Baby Heroes choose who they donate to, and on what terms. A new solution!
About DIY Baby
Why did The Child Listener- Emma Hartnell-Baker- create this website in the first place?
Advertise with DIY Baby
We reserve the right to refuse advertising, and only accept quality websites offering services and products that are of interest to our millions of site visitors
DIY Baby Self-Insemination Kit
order DY Baby self-insemination kits online- delivered internationally
DIY Baby Self-Insemination Guides
Practicalities of using sperm to inseminate at home- find out how and when to self-inseminate successfully
DIY Baby Ovulation Predictors
Read about and buy ovulation testing strips and kits- you need to track your cycle to know when to inseminate!
DIY Baby Pregnancy Tests
Read about, and buy pregnancy testing strips and kits
DIY Baby Specialists
Australia

Sperm banks, fertility specialists in Australia
To view basic profiles of our Australian DIY Baby Heroes (over sperm donors) click here
DIY Baby Specialists
Canada

Sperm banks, fertility specialists in Canada.
To view basic profiles of our Canadian DIY Baby Heroes (over sperm donors in Canada) click here
DIY Baby Specialists UK
Sperm banks, fertility specialists in the UK
To view basic profiles of our USA DIY Baby Heroes (over 600 UK sperm donors) click here
DIY Baby Specialists USA
Sperm banks, fertility specialists in the USA
To view basic profiles of our USA DIY Baby Heroes (over 600 USA sperm donors) click here
Legalities of Sperm Donation in your Country
Protect yourself and do our
reaearch before making a decision if this is right for you.
All DIY Baby Subscribers and Donors can access a free private donor agreement document in the member only area.
Sperm Donation in the News
FSDW/ DIY Baby has made th news/ been written about in numerous magazine articles because of our incredible DIY Baby Hero success stories. Also use this page to find out whats been happening worldwide, with regards to sperm donation
Sassy Mamaz Maternity Wear and Pregnancy Gifts
Be proud of your pregnancy, tell the world how excited you are about your Bump! Gifts for pregnant ladies, and to give to friends and loved ones, to celebrate this wonderful occasion together!
Children Born From Sperm Donation Blog
share experiences, offer support and advice to help those considering having a child through sperm donation, men interested in helping women by donating sperm, and of course children (who may now be adults) born from sperm donation.


Sperm Bank Directory

 

DIY Baby was created by The Child LIstener- to create choices for single women, lesbian and infertile couples- who are committed to having a child using alternative methods of conception and who wish to do all they can to meet the needs of the children born as a result.

DIY Baby™ was created by The Child Listener™ in 2004
- Creating Choices for Single Women, Lesbian & Infertile Couples!
Promoting responsible
sperm donation practice.

DIY Baby and FSDW- Created by The Child Listener Emma Hartnell-Baker- Creating choices for women and infertile couples!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Fertility Choices- Alternative family planning in the modern world

 

 

Your advertising and sponsorship helps Emma to maintain the site herself, and reach millions of women, infertile couples and potential sperm donors.


Hi Emma
Just wanted to let you know
my partner is now 9 weeks
pregnant thanks to a donor we
met on your site. It was our first
attempt with this particular donor
and we're over the moon. Please
keep up the good work.
We tell everyone who'll listen
about the site. Words cannot
thank you enough-without
you they'd be no site and
without the site we would
not be expecting a baby!
He/She will arrive
just before Christmas-what
better present can you think of?!
We'll keep you posted
of our progress...


Thnaks once again.
M, S and Bump

 

Your advertising and sponsorship helps Emma to maintain the site herself, and reach millions of women, infertile couples and potential sperm donors.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your advertising and sponsorship helps Emma to maintain the site herself, and reach millions of women, infertile couples and potential sperm donors.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your advertising and sponsorship helps Emma to maintain the site herself, and reach millions of women, infertile couples and potential sperm donors.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your advertising and sponsorship helps Emma to maintain the site herself, and reach millions of women, infertile couples and potential sperm donors.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Custom Search

Free Information and Advice Relating to The

Self-Insemination of Donor Sperm

 

 



A few tips to help you become pregnant through artificial insemination!

Sperm may be frozen and shipped to your international address when you use a US sperm bank.
You cannot freeze sperm at home as the temperature needs to be much lower than is possible without specialist equipment. When you make an arrangement with a privately listed sperm donor therefore you will need to collect a fresh sample.

This is all you need to prepare and do...

Supplies needed:

Needleless syringe or oral medicine syringe
Collection cup, baggy or condom
(Optional) Saline without additives or preservatives
(Optional) Tube to attach to syringe
(Optional) Mild germicidal soap
You can ask your doctor for a needleless syringe or you can buy an oral medicine syringe at just about any
drugstore/ chemist. Buy the syringe with a plunger, not a bulb end (not the mini turkey baster!). The syringes work pretty much the same way. One that is maybe 4 inches long, or longer, is probably best. The oral medicine syringes have about a half inch narrow tip on the end. You can attach a catheter (thin tube) to either kind of syringe but you don't need to and it may waste more of the semen to use one.

a) Take a clean or sterile glass or plastic cup, baggy, or collection condom and have the male ejaculate into it. You'll probably have better luck getting the semen out of a cup since you could suck the baggy or condom up to the syringe and block the opening, but you may get a larger sample with the baggy or condom. You can use a tiny bit of saline, without additives/preservatives, to help get as much sperm as possible into the syringe, but you don't need to worry too much about leaving a little behind. If you are using frozen sperm, you need to ask the sperm bank for directions on thawing.

b) Draw back on the syringe once with nothing but air, then push the air out again.

c) Draw back on the syringe again, but this time have the end of it in the semen -- the vacuum created by pulling back on the stopper will suck the semen into the syringe.

d) Try to tap out any air bubbles since you don't want to inject air into your vagina. You can do this by slowly rotating the syringe until the opening is facing up. Tap the air bubbles to the top and them push the plunger in on the catheter just a small amount -- enough to get rid of air w/o squirting semen out.

e) Get into a position where you can either stay comfortably for a half hour or can get into the position w/ minimal movement. Ideal is to either have hips raised or to lay on your side making sure your pelvis is canted (usually hips provide natural angle if you hips are wider than your waist, but if your bed, or wherever you are lying, is soft, you may want to put a pillow or two underneath your hip).

f) Slowly glide the syringe, or catheter, into the vagina until it is close to the cervix -- but do not try to get it into the cervix and do this gently. Your goal is to coat the outside of the cervix and to deposit as much sperm as possible as close the cervix as you can get it.

g) SLOWLY inject sperm. If you do it too fast, it can squirt out of the vagina or at least spray away from the cervix.

h) If you are concerned about wastage in the syringe, you can use some saline, without additives . . . add some to the syringe, shake it a bit, get the air out, and inject. This is not necessary since there probably won't be enough wastage to be of concern.

i) Try to have an orgasm -- Some suggest that using a vibrator for clitoral stimulation produces a bigger, more powerful orgasm. Use whatever method works best for you (unless it requires lots of water!). The orgasm helps the cervix dip into the vaginal pool and suck up sperm -- it helps get more sperm up there, and may speed sperm travel. Avoid penetration (as in intercourse or with vibrator). This falls in the can't hurt, might help category.

j) You can use water and a mild germicidal soap to clean your supplies if they will have time to dry completely before re-use, or run very hot water over them. Otherwise you can use saline to clean everything.

Timing for this kind of insemination is the same as for intercourse -- if possible. The best timing is the day before LH surge (as detected with an ovulation predictor kit), day of LH surge, and next 2-3 days, the last day or two being insurance. If you don't have all those options, the day of the LH surge and the day after are best.

The advantage to this method is that you don't need any fitted equipment! You don't even need a speculum (though you can use one).

The success rate is the same as with intercourse, although there are usually fewer opportunities for insemination and timing may not cover the bases as well.




I'd love to hear your success stories so please do keep me posted with
any exciting news!
I wish you all the best, please let me know if I can help further. Good luck!

Emma :-)


Order Self-Insemination Kits Online- new page


Self Insemination

 


What is self insemination ?

DIY (do-it-yourself) or self-insemination, is a method in which the woman (or her partner ) inserts semen into the vagina herself, without medical assistance. This is surprisingly easy - and a useful technique for single women, lesbian and infertile couples, and heterosexual couples with sexual dysfunction.

How to self-inseminate - what is needed

The most important ingredient is freshly ejaculated semen that is inseminated within 90 minutes max). Ask your donor to ejaculate in a clean glass or plastic container. Make sure this is wide-mouthed, so it’s easier for him to aim accurately – you want it all!
You can also use frozen semen samples from a sperm bank, after allowing them to thaw at room temperature. Visit our Directory for listings of sperm bank - usually in the USA- that will ship overseas if you live outside of the US

After the semen sample has liquefied (this takes about 30 minutes), you are now ready to self-inseminate. Suck up the semen sample into a 10-ml plastic disposable syringe (without a needle) or use a turkey baster- although the small amount of semen does not require such a large instrument.

The semen now needs to be squirted into the vagina- and as this is sometimes tricky you may want to have practised this a few times first- using water. . You need to lie on a bed, with your knees and thighs bent, and your knees wide apart. Guides the tip of the syringe into the vagina and put the syringe in as deep as you can before plunging the barrel, depositing the semen into the vagina. Ideally you should try to have an orgasm during the process- by stimulating the clitoris- not through penetration of insertion of anything such as a vibrator. The only thing to go insidethe vagina is the syringe!

You may find it easier to lie on the edge of the bed, with a pillow under hips so that your hips protrude over the edge whil you undertake the procedure . You can remain lying on your back for about ten minutes, after which you can resume normal activity. Some of the semen will leak out, and this is normal.

While using a speculum is not essential, it can help, because it makes it easier to inject the semen at the mouth of the uterus (the cervix). You can use a disposable plastic speculum, and when you insert the speculum, make sure the blades are closed. You can slide it in upwards, or else sideways, turning it when it has been pushed all the way into your vagina. When the handles are above your pubic bone, squeeze them together, which will open your vaginal walls. You will hear a click when the speculum is locked open. If you are inseminating with a partner s/he will be able to see your cervix, which is round and pink with an opening (the os) in the middle. The mucus may appear as a clear bubble, or a thread like raw egg white. You can use a mirror to see what’s going on for yourself, if you so desire! After the insemination, make sure that you release the handles and collapse the blades before removing it from your vagina.

Some women use a cup or cap for self-insemination. Rubber cervical caps are designed for contraception (hence the name "cap") but they can be used for insemination. There is also a cervical cup especially designed for insemination, which is slightly larger and more shallow, the name "cup" indicating that it serves as a semen receptacle. You simply squat down, check the position of your cervix, and insert the cap containing the semen in that direction, holding it upright at all times. Check all around the top of your vagina to make sure that you didn’t miss you cervix. The cup can be removed after several hours. Take care to break the suction by hooking a finger over the edge of it before trying to pull it out.

Timing the procedure is extremely important, because you need to inseminate during your "fertile period". Fortunately, it’s quite easy to determine when you ovulate, and you can either monitor your cervical mucus, or use an ovulation prediction kit.

 


Ways to artificially inseminate sperm for donor conception

There are basically 3 ways of doing an at-home insemination:


The so-called Turkey Baster Method, though it is smarter to use a needleless syringe or an oral medicine syringe.


Insemination using a Cervical Cap, Diaphragm or Instead Cup.


Using a Cervical Cap with Access Tube such as the Oligiosperma Cup from Milex, (Needs to be purchased through a doctor. This is a cervical cap with a tube for adding sperm after the cup is in place.

(And the 4th method is an intra-cervical insemination -- it is more painful, no more effective, and your doctor needs to give you equipment and train you.)


TURKEY BASTER METHOD (NEEDLELESS SYRINGE)
Supplies needed:

Needleless syringe or oral medicine syringe
Collection cup, baggy or condom
(Optional) Saline without additives or preservatives
(Optional) Tube to attach to syringe
(Optional) Mild germicidal soap
You can ask your doctor for a needleless syringe or you can buy an oral medicine syringe at just about any drugstore or in Wal*Mart near the children's thermometers. Buy the syringe with a plunger, not a bulb end (not the mini turkey baster!). The syringes work pretty much the same way. One that is maybe 4 inches long, or longer, is probably best. The oral medicine syringes have about a half inch narrow tip on the end. You can attach a catheter (thin tube) to either kind of syringe but you don't need to and it may waste more of the semen to use one.

a) Take a clean or sterile glass or plastic cup, baggy, or collection condom and have the male ejaculate into it. You'll probably have better luck getting the semen out of a cup since you could suck the baggy or condom up to the syringe and block the opening, but you may get a larger sample with the baggy or condom. You can use a tiny bit of saline, without additives/preservatives, to help get as much sperm as possible into the syringe, but you don't need to worry too much about leaving a little behind. If you are using frozen sperm, you need to ask the sperm bank for directions on thawing.

b) Draw back on the syringe once with nothing but air, then push the air out again.

c) Draw back on the syringe again, but this time have the end of it in the semen -- the vacuum created by pulling back on the stopper will suck the semen into the syringe.

d) Try to tap out any air bubbles since you don't want to inject air into your vagina. You can do this by slowly rotating the syringe until the opening is facing up. Tap the air bubbles to the top and them push the plunger in on the catheter just a small amount -- enough to get rid of air w/o squirting semen out.

e) Get into a position where you can either stay comfortably for a half hour or can get into the position w/ minimal movement. Ideal is to either have hips raised or to lay on your side making sure your pelvis is canted (usually hips provide natural angle if you hips are wider than your waist, but if your bed, or wherever you are lying, is soft, you may want to put a pillow or two underneath your hip).

f) Slowly glide the syringe, or catheter, into the vagina until it is close to the cervix -- but do not try to get it into the cervix and do this gently. Your goal is to coat the outside of the cervix and to deposit as much sperm as possible as close the cervix as you can get it.

g) SLOWLY inject sperm. If you do it too fast, it can squirt out of the vagina or at least spray away from the cervix.

h) If you are concerned about wastage in the syringe, you can use some saline, without additives . . . add some to the syringe, shake it a bit, get the air out, and inject. This is not necessary since there probably won't be enough wastage to be of concern.

i) Try to have an orgasm -- Some suggest that using a vibrator for clitoral stimulation produces a bigger, more powerful orgasm. Use whatever method works best for you (unless it requires lots of water!). The orgasm helps the cervix dip into the vaginal pool and suck up sperm -- it helps get more sperm up there, and may speed sperm travel. Avoid penetration (as in intercourse or with vibrator). This falls in the can't hurt, might help category.

j) You can use water and a mild germicidal soap to clean your supplies if they will have time to dry completely before re-use, or run very hot water over them. Otherwise you can use saline to clean everything.

Timing for this kind of insemination is the same as for intercourse -- if possible. The best timing is the day before LH surge (as detected with an ovulation predictor kit), day of LH surge, and next 2-3 days, the last day or two being insurance. If you don't have all those options, the day of the LH surge and the day after are best.

The advantage to this method is that you don't need any fitted equipment! You don't even need a speculum (though you can use one).

The success rate is the same as with intercourse, perhaps a bit less because there are usually fewer opportunities for insemination and timing may not cover the bases as well.


CERVICAL CAP / DIAPHRAGM / INSTEAD CUP


Supplies needed:

Cervical Cap, Diaphragm or Instead Cup
(Optional) Collection cup, baggy or condom
(Optional) Needleless syringe or oral medicine syringe
(Optional) Saline without additives or preservatives
(Optional) Mild germicidal soap
Both the cervical cap and diaphragm are items that you are usually fitted with by a doctor. The Instead Cup is actually a cup that women use to hold their period blood instead of a tampon or pad, and is available OTC. They all come with directions on insertion, but I will give a little detail here. This is something you may want to practice doing to try to avoid spilling the semen.

a) You can either have ejaculation directly in the cap/diaphragm/cup, or into another clean receptacle (glass or plastic cup, baggy collection condom). You may need a needleless or oral medicine syringe to get the semen from the collection receptacle to the cap/diaphragm/cup.

b) Fold the cap/diaphragm/cup in half so the upper rim in closed enough to hold in the semen.

c) Get into a comfortable position for insertion -- standing with leg up on chair/toilet, sitting wide legged on toilet . . . whatever works for you. You can also have your partner insert it, but practice first.

d) Once the cap/diaphragm/cup is in place, try to have an orgasm. Penetration is OK, but maybe not the best idea . . . As stated above some suggest that using a vibrator for clitoral stimulation produces a bigger, more powerful orgasm. The orgasm helps the cervix dip into the vaginal pool and suck up sperm -- it gets more sperm up there, and may speed sperm travel. It's one of those can't hurt, might help things.

e) Leave the cap/diaphragm/cup in place for at least 2-3 hours, but not more than 12 (check directions).

f) You can use water and a mild germicidal soap to clean your supplies if they will have time to dry completely before re-use, or run very hot water over them. Otherwise you can use saline to clean everything.

Timing is the same as for intercourse -- if possible. The best timing is the day before LH surge as detected with an ovulation predictor kit), day of LH surge, and next 2-3 days, the last day or two being insurance. If you don't have all those options, the day of the LH surge and the day after are best.

One advantage is that you can move around immediately since the sperm is place next to the cervix and held there. Disadvantage is that you need to be fitted for the cervical cap or diaphragm.

The success rate is the same as with intercourse, perhaps a bit less because there are usually fewer opportunities for insemination and timing may not cover the bases as well.


CERVICAL CAP WITH TUBE

Supplies needed:

Cervical Cap with Tube
Collection cup, baggy or condom
Needleless syringe or oral medicine syringe
(Optional) Saline without additives or preservatives
(Optional) Mild germicidal soap
I've only found one such device and it is sold by Milex to doctors and medical suppliers. You may need to get it from your doctor. This would be basically the same as the cervical cap discussion above, only you inject the sperm through a tube after the catheter is in place.

The success rate is the same as with intercourse, perhaps a bit less because there are usually fewer opportunities for insemination and timing may not cover the bases as well.



PREPARING DONOR SPERM

No special preparation is needed for donor sperm collected locally from a known donor.

Shipped fresh sperm is generally sent overnight at a cool temperature similar to a refrigerator. Perparation is as simple as warming the vial in your hands or bra for a few minutes before loading into the syringe or cervical cap/diaphragm/instead cup. Another option is to load the syringe and warm in your hands before inserting into the vagina. Just be careful not to spill.

Frozen sperm should be thawed fairly slowly. The best thing to do is ask the sperm bank for directions on handling and warming the sperm. If that information isn't provided, it is probably best to put the vial into a cup cool water and turn every minute or two for about 5 minutes. Then refresh your cup with somewhat warmer water and continue turning. Repeat until the sperm is thawed. When the vial is close to body temperature, go about your insemination with whichever method you've chosen. Make sure not to get the sperm too warm -- definitely do not use hot water (not only could it kill the sperm, but there is the potential of breaking the vial as well).




Order Self-Insemination Kits Online

When should you artificially inseminate, to increase your chances of becoming pregnant using a listed sperm donor?
Ovulation Predictor Info

At Home Artificial Insemination Links
Saliva Ovulation Predictor
Saliva Based Ovulation Predictor tests (as are urine based OPK's) are designed to indicate the most fertile time within a women's cycle. The Web Womb Site is based on and fully promotes the FAM method for pregnancy achievement and recommends that any ovulation predictor test should be considered as a "fourth" tool in fertility indication and used along with charting your basal body temperature, cervical fluid and cervical position.
Click Here for More Info
Or here - Baby Hopes

Useful links

Infertility and Getting Pregnant
http://www.wdxcyber.com/minfert.htm

Pregancy Forum

/www.backupmd.net/infertility/wwwboard.shtml#post

Try out our Fertility Calculator to see when your most
fertile days occur.
Ovulation Calendar/Calculator
N W Andrology and Cryobank Inc

Understanding Your Cycle (simplified)
The monthly fertility pattern which occurs regularly in most women beginning at puberty and ending at menopause is called the menstrual cycle. Each cycle is divided into two parts --- before ovulation and after ovulation. Over a 28-day period the cycle typically follows this pattern:
Part 1. Day 1 is the day bleeding begins and usually lasts from 3-5 days. This first part, from menstruation to ovulation, may vary from 13 to 20 days in length and is referred to as the follicular phase of the cycle, as this is when the follicle develops the mature egg. The actual length may not only differ from one woman to another but also differs in some women from month to month. It is during this critical first part of the cycle that fertilization can occur. The regularity of this pattern may be upset by such common occurrences as sickness, stress, physical exertion or even climate changes. A rise in the level of Luteinizing Hormone (LH) accompanies a change in the cervical mucous in anticipation of the follicle rupturing and releasing a mature egg towards the end of this first half of the cycle. This surge in hormone level can be detected in your urine and is commonly used to predict ovulation and your fertile period. The ruptured follicle becomes the corpus luteum and produces hormones that effect the rest of the cycle.
Part 2. The second part of the cycle, from ovulation to menstruation, is about the same length in all women, and is called the luteal phase. It is during this part that the egg travels down the fallopian tube toward the uterus --- an event which consistently occurs 14 to 16 days before the onset of menstruation regardless of the length of a woman's menstrual cycle. If a single male sperm unites with the egg while it is in the tube the fertilized egg may attach to the spongy lining of the uterus. Pregnancy begins if this "implantation" takes place. If fertilization does not take place the egg will break apart in a day or two. At about Day 25, hormone levels begin to drop. This causes the lining of the uterus to break down and in a few days it is shed in a menstrual period. Another cycle has begun.
Pregnancy can be detected by the rise in HCG levels, which will quickly rise after successful implantation of an embryo. Some home tests can detect this rise as soon as within 10-12 days past ovulation. Go to our Fertility Store to view or order LH and HCG test kits.

© Copyright N W Andrology and Cryobank Inc
http://www.nwcryobank.com

Ovulation Calculator's
How Early Can I Test for Pregnancy?
Though hCG is produced at different rates in different women, there are general timelines for deciding when to test. However, when testing on the early side, do not rely on one test for conclusive results - especially a negative result: the hCG threshold for displaying a positive result on a home pregnancy test may not yet have been reached.
Early Detection Pregnancy Tests
When a woman becomes pregnant, the amount of hCG in her system should be around 25 mIU at 10 dpo (days past ovulation), 50 mIU at 12 dpo, 100 mIU at around two weeks dpo (these are averages that may deviate among different women). Test sensitivity equates with early-detection - and the lower the number, the sooner a test can detect pregnancy. At 20 MIU test sensitivity, you can begin testing at 7-10 days post ovulation, though the earlier you begin testing, the higher chance you have of getting a false negative.
Here, implantation of the fertilized egg needs to take place before hCG is produced by the developing placenta, and that generally occurs at 6-10 dpo. If you decide to test early, make sure you perform a few follow-up tests every other day using first morning urine. Your hCG levels should rise exponentially, doubling every 2 days - which means that the follow up tests should eventually detect pregnancy if you are, in fact, pregnant.
For earliest detection of pregnancy, use first morning urine, as this urine sample contains the most concentrated amount of hCG. If using first morning urine is not feasible, avoiding urination for several hours before using a pregnancy test.

What Does a Faint Line Mean on a
Pregnancy Test?


read article

 


Hi
I have between 4 and 6 people that I try to get to in any one month. 3 of the 6 seem to have very long ans iregular cycles that does not help me trying to plan. I am not in a position to take on any more people at the moment.
However here is something to help potential recipiants.

I would suggest that people wanting to have a child start gathering a history of their monthly cycle. I would suggest monitoring cervical mucose, BBT, urine stick LH and any body feelings, a salt microscope is also a good idea. There are a few links I could supply. The reason for this is that the internet gives people an average when it calculates ovulation, each person can differ. If the recipiants had a history before they met me, at least 3 would have been pregnant. One couple tried for 3 months with another donor, 3 months with me and then when I suggested getting a salt microscope, they found they were trying at the wrong time.... between 7 and 12 days to soon.... needless to say, when the salt microscope was used, the lady got pregnant the first time.
Quietrman (UK Sperm Donor)
Re the above letter...
A technique to predict ovulation is through the relatively new method of salivary ferning. There is also an initial upfront cost when purchasing a mini microscope to test saliva. Due to an increase in estrogen levels, mucous membranes have been shown to produce more salt as you enter the fertile period of your menstrual cycle. This increase in salt causes saliva to crystallize into fern-like patterns when viewed through a microscope. These fern-like patterns are only present when ovulation is about to begin. During non-fertile periods of the menstrual cycle, dried saliva will create a random pattern of dots when dried and viewed through a microscope. Studies have shown that ferning begins within one to two days of egg white cervical mucous. Studies also show that using salivary ferning with other body cues can render a 99% accuracy rate in predicting ovulation.



hi ,dont know if you can help me here. But i have a few questions and i dont know who to ask and i thought of you. Firstly, i may have found a donor who is 40years old, do u think that is an ok age to go with, im 25. ?? secondly, he lives abut 120 miles away , obviously it is going to happen through artificial insemination.and i would be travelling up there to pick it up, but not sure if travelling back with it for 2 hours is too long for it to stay ok....? Not sure on how you could help if at all, but i would be thankful for any kind of advice, considering i have never done anything like this before.......
thankyou very much

Hi Zoe- no, 40 isnt too old and you need to travel there around the ovulation period so that you can literally use the syringe there and then. You need to inseminate as quickly as possible after he has ejaculated - he will do this into a cup and you use the syringe immediately. Then stay lying down for at least half an hour. If I were you I would use an ovulation predictor for a couple of months so you get to know your cycle, and then travel up the day before you are due to ovuate. Stay for a couple of nights, and meet with him for the two/ three days you are there so you are inseminating preferably 24 hours before you ovulate and also on the day your predictor says you are ovulating. Once sperm is exposed to the air they die pretty quickly - within 90 mins- so dont transport it or your chances of becoming pregnant get smaller by the minute.
Good luck with everything!
Emma

Q Can I freeze sperm and then use it to artificially inseminate myself?
A Unfortunately, no.
When reproductive specialists freeze sperm, they do so at a temperature of almost -200 degrees C. (-328 degrees F.) The temperature of a typical home freezer is -4 degrees C. (25 degrees F.)

Sperm are also made up of a lot of fluid.
Imagine leaving a bottle of water in a glass container in the freezer? The bottle will explode in just a few hours because the water turns to ice and expands.
The same thing would happen to sperm if frozen.

Q Why do successful, single men donate sperm?
Click here for suggested useful answers and comments

Q. Can I request shipping from Canadian sperm
banks to the UK?


See the shipping and costs page- this outlines buying sperm from a US sperm banks and shipping it (Frozen) to your home or doctor. There are several Canadina sperm banks eg xytex.com has a Candian office, and most seem to ship overseas but to your doctor, and not your home.
Anyone got any info relating to this topic? Please email us

Q. What is the difference between “washed” and “unwashed” samples? Are some cleaner than others?
A. The terms “washed” and “unwashed” can be confusing, however, these terms have nothing to do with the cleanliness of the semen. Washed units must be used if the patient is undergoing Intrauterine Insemination. (The woman usually is stimulated with medication to stimulate multiple egg development and the insemination is timed to coincide with ovulation)
Before cryopreservation, the sperm are separated from the seminal fluid and the fluid is replaced with a preservative fluid. It is critical that washed units are used in IUI as unwashed units injected into the uterus can cause violent cramping which, in addition to being extremely painful, will most likely result in the loss of all sperm injected.
Both washed and unwashed samples can be used for ICI or Intracervical Inseminations. (for example at home, using syringe)

Q Are there any statistics relating to pregancy
- ie at home or using doctor?
From NY Cryobank
Success Statistics
Of the last 200 plus pregnancies reported to us, the following statistics were determined. These statistics do not include those patients that did not achieve or did not report a pregnancy.
Age of females reporting pregnancies: Range: 24-44 (twenty three above the age of 35, including eight above 40) Average of 33.6 years old. Pregnancies achieved through insemination at, Home AI 63%, Doctors' office 37%. Most clients used the syringe/catheter for the insemination and timed their inseminations at 12 and 36 hours past LH surge detection. Number of vials of sperm used / cycle Range 1 to 6 vials Average 1.9 vials. Number of cycles of AI to achieve pregnancy: Range 1- 8 cycles Average 2.1 cycles

Tell me about ordering sperm and shipping from a registered sperm bank

. As a guide, the N W Andrology & Cryobank Inc charge around US$149 per vial.
Most women will use two or more per ovulation to increase the change of pregnancy.
To predict ovulation please visit your chemist and buy
an ovulation kit.
Shipping usually takes around 3 - 5 days, and you will want the shipment to arrive 2 - 3 days in advance of your expected ovulation date.
Pregnancy rate is dependent on your age and fertility.
There are no guarantees.
Shipment costs vary - around US$169 - US$259
So an idea of cost per 'attempt' (per cycle) if you are outside of the US would be around US$500 - for 2 vials plus, say, US$200 for shipping. Approx £300

It may be advisable to buy additional specimins at the same time, and store at a local sperm bank if possible, so you may use the following month.

The shipping is done with a dry nitrogen dewar. It is a small tank that weighs about 25lbs in the protective shipping box.
You are usually allowed around 7 days use of this, and must return it - paying for return shipping yourself - after which you are charged by the day.
When you wish to order sperm for shipping you must check with your authorites that sperm may be imported and if there are any restrictions or charges.
Although the following may not be correct, we believe that it is easy to ship sperm from the US to the UK, Germany, the Netherlands, Japan, Mexico and Canada
France has regulations as to who may import sperm.
Spain has regulations.
Australia has different regulations depending on territory. Call your health authority.


 

 


Ovulation-Calculator's
Top 10 Signs You May Be Pregnant

We've all heard stories from women who "just knew" they were pregnant from the moment of conception. The rest of us, however, are left to rely on other - less intuitive - means of determining if there's a baby on the way.

Here's our list of the Top Ten Signs you may be pregnant (but if you want to cut to the chase and find out for sure, home pregnancy tests can help you confirm your suspicions). Please keep in mind that, while the signs described here are quite common in early pregnancy, you may not experience all - or even any - of these symptoms. See also > Pregnancy Symptoms 101: Symptoms by Trimester

1. Missed Your Period?
This is the classic sign of pregnancy - especially if, like many women, your cycles are typically like clockwork. If you've missed your period, it's probably time to take a home pregnancy test. Home pregnancy tests work by determining the amount of hCG (Human Chorionic Gonadotropin) present in your urine. Remember - your first urine of the day tends to have the most concentrated amount of hCG. Early morning urine will give you your best chance at detecting the small concentrations of hCG that are present in the early days of pregnancy.

2. Feeling Sick in the Morning - Or Any Other Time?
About one-half of all pregnant women experience some form of morning sickness (nausea, vomiting, etc.) in early pregnancy. Contrary to popular belief, "morning" sickness isn't always limited to morning; many women experience nausea in the evening, in the afternoon - and a substantial percentage of lucky ladies feel sick all day. (Note: Although rare, morning sickness can be extreme in some cases. Contact your doctor if are becoming dehydrated as a result of morning sickness.)

3. Are Your Breasts Sore?
Are your breasts or nipples feeling a bit sensitive - perhaps in the same way they feel right before you have your period? This is one more sign that you may be pregnant. Breast sensitivity is a common phenomenon in early pregnancy - and thankfully, one that begins to fade by the second trimester. But if you're one of those "glass is half full" types, look at it this way: for many women, sensitive breasts translate into heightened pleasure during intimate moments…

4. Checked Your Areola Lately?
Along with more sensitive breasts, you may notice a slight darkening of the areola, the concentric zone which surrounds the nipple. (Some say this darkening serves a purpose; it makes it easier for your baby to find his/her food source!)

5. Honorable Discharge?
In the early days of pregnancy, mucous begins to accumulate around the opening of the cervix to form the mucous plug, a barrier that helps protect the baby during its development. As a result of this mucous formation, you may notice a bit of vaginal discharge. (Discharge as a sign of pregnancy should not be accompanied by other distinguishing features of an infection, such as a burning sensation, foul smell, or itchiness.)

6. Gotta Pee?
Although pregnancy is indeed miraculous, it does not involve a suspension of the laws of physics. That means that as the baby grows larger in your uterus, the space that once allowed for expansion of your bladder is decreased. The result? You feel like you need to pee more often. Also, you may notice bloating similar to what you experience prior to your period.

7. Not Tonight, Honey. I've Got a Headache...
As a result of the complex mixture of hormones coursing through a pregnant woman's body, it's not uncommon for women to experience headaches more frequently during pregnancy.

8. Seeing Spots?
Around the time when implantation occurs (the moment when the embryo attaches to the lining of the uterine wall), it's not uncommon to notice a bit of spotting. You would look for this sign at around eight to ten days after you last ovulated. (You can use the ovulation calculator located on our home page to calculate your ovulation date.) Spotting as a result of implantation usually looks a bit different than your regular period; it tends to be light in volume and pinkish in color, as opposed to the deep red color associated with regular menstrual bleeding.

9. Temperature Climbing?
A raised basal body temperature past the time when your period is due is another possible indicator of pregnancy.

10. All Stopped Up?
Another sign of pregnancy is constipation. This is caused by certain hormones which are present in early pregnancy relaxing your intestines and slowing the digestive process.

These signs are ones often experienced in early pregnancy - but that's not to say there aren't others. Many women have reported experiencing other "tell-tale" signs such as:

an enhanced sense of smell
fatigue
hunger
weepiness
heartburn
complexion problems ("breaking out")
Once you suspect you are pregnant, home pregnancy tests can confirm you suspicions. For FDA Approved pregnancy tests that allow you to begin detecting pregnancy at around 7-10 days past ovulation, please click here.

View full page

 

 
 
 

Order a Self-Insemination Kit from DIY Baby™


 

 

 

 

 

 


CLICK HERE to read a variety of ' Pregnancy through Sperm Donation' Stories, Articles, News

Email us to suggest a new topic or to add your links / articles to these pages.

 

 
DIY Baby Sperm Bank Directory - Focus on the UK, USA, Australia & Canada

 

. more ...

 

 

How to Donate Sperm- Privately and Through a Clinic/ Sperm Bank

 

. more ...

 

 
Find a Private Sperm Donor in Your Country

more ...


This section here soon- thanks for your patience!

Pregnancy through sperm donation- enjoy our links, articles and stories!

 


 


Join as a FSDW/ DIY Baby™ member & access the private members only area.
This part of the site is password protected, and set up like a dating site- but with women and infertile couples
looking for a sperm donor! Donors may be looking for no involvement post conception, some would like a
yearly photo and some would consider co-parenting. Everyone includes expectations within profiles.
Within the Member's Area you can create and read blogs, offer support and advice, read profiles - contact one another directly. Use the links to request DIY Baby™ Guides and Self-Insemination Kit.
If you are looking for a sperm donor please be assured that your subscription fee is all you pay. These fees enable
Emma to run the site herself.The wonderful donors who register- DIY Baby Heroes- donate sperm
for free, AI only
, although they reserve the right to donate only to those they feel have the same expectations and outlook.
All users agree to follow the DIY Baby Behaviour Code



Why do so many men donate sperm without payment, AI only, through FSDW?




They tell Emma, web site creator, that they want to know who they are donating to, they want to know that if they choose to donate their best swimmers, that any child or children born as a result will be raised with love and support. The will often want an assurance that the women/ couples are able to meet the finacial burden of raising a child and providing for their emotional, physical and intellectual needs.

After conception many donors will then want no involvement with the child/ children, however some would welcome a yearly update, some offer to be available should the child wish to know more, or to meet them, some would even welcome co-parenting options. Through FSDW/ DIY Baby they are able to have a greater choice in this regard- as are the women using a sperm donor for assisted pregnancy. Women/ couples and donors include their expectations in profiles (within the Member's Only Area) and this makes finding a match easier. This also means that there are less likely to be any legal complications later on, as they are already clear about what they want from this. Emma promotes intelligent and mutually respectful sperm donation practice, and the women and donors using her website do so as they have a similar outlook. She also provides free information about the legalities of private sperm donation and encourages all to research their decision wisely. She has helped hundreds, if not thousands of women since launching the site however, and believes that it is her personal approach, the professionalism of the donors (her DIY Baby Heroes!) and dedication to being a parent from the women and infertile couples, that has meant that all press regarding FSDW/ DIY Baby has been positive. Please do read testimonials from past members, and readlinks to newspaper and magazine articles
(The Daily Mail, Eve Magazine and more...)

 

Just a few of the hundreds of success stories, sent to Emma since this started in 2004..

hello Emma,  Im from Western Australia. (donor name removed) did it for us! I couldn't me happier with your services.
I am 2-3 weeks pregnant as a result!

Em, Thank you ! We found our perfect donor on your site and we started trying for a baby last month. I will let you know how successful we are, but in the meantime we are very greatful for getting this far. T

hi just to let you know things have worked out for me i am now pregnant after a first go at meeting a donor at your web site L
Hi Emma- just a quick message to let you know that after getting in touch with our donor through your site we are now pregnant.
Thank you so much for the worthwhile work you do.R and J x
Hi Emma, hope you are well,  Just thought we best update you with our progress,  We thankyou very much from the bottom of our hearts, we are pregnant after our first attempt, and today it was confirmed my partner is carrying twins.  Thankyou is not a strong enough word we can use.  Our donor was excellent and we have been able to build up a great raport with him. Once again this service you provide has helped us achieve our dream .C and A
Hi there, I would like to send you my thanks on behalf of myself , the gay couple I helped and our son who was born a few days ago,
Your work is really important and helped us all achieve something in our lives which we wanted so very much. Thanks again and all the best
to your organisation for the future. D
Hi emma, I was wondering if you could remove our message off the free message board as we are pregnant and were lucky
enough to have got it on the first go. Thank you so much for your site this wouldnt of happened without it. B & K

Sperm donation from private sperm donors- DIY Baby Heroes donate through Free-Sperm-Donations.com/ DIY-Baby.com How can you donate sperm? Visit www.sperm-donors-worldwide.com / FSDW or DIY-Baby.com to find out about private sperm donation in the UK, USA, Australia, Canada, New Zealand and worldwide..and buy self-insemination kits online through DIY BABY™!

 


 

Private sperm donors in the UK, USA, Australia, New Zealand, Canada and worldwide
......use these links to view basic DIY Baby Hero profiles for free, before you subscribe!

DIY Baby Heroes - Private Sperm Donors
in Your Country and Area!

You'll be taken to Emma's FSDW web site - Emma (Also known as 'The Child Listener') created these web sites to help women and infertile couples have greater opportunity and choices with regards to being a parent. Alternative parenting in the modern world. Why be limited because of marital status, sexuality, fertility or finances? Creating choices for single women, lesbian and infertile couples.
Experience the joy of parenthood!

DIY Baby Heros - Australia



DIY Baby Heroes- Canada

DIY Baby Heroes - New Zealand

DIY Baby Heroes - Other Countries


DIY Baby Heroes USA

Alabama / Alaska / Arizona / Arkansas / California/ Colorado/ Connecticut / Delaware/
Florida/ Georgia/ Hawaii/ Idaho State/ Illinois / Indiana / Iowa / Kansas / Kentucky / Louisiana/ Maine/ Maryland/ Massachusetts / Michigan / Minnesota / Mississippi / Missouri / Montana /Nebraska / Nevada / New Hampshire / New Jersey / New Mexico/ New York / North Carolina / North Dakota/ Ohio/ Oklahoma/ Oregon/ Pennsylvania/ Rhode Island / South Carolina / South Dakota / Tennessee/ Texas/ Utah /Vermont / Virginia / Washington/ West Virginia /Wisconsin / Wyoming Capital

DIY Baby Heroes

Bedfordshire UK Sperm Donors  
| Berkshire UK Sperm Donors | Buckinghamshire UK Sperm Donors | Cambridgeshire UK Sperm Donors | Cheshire UK Sperm Donors |Cornwall UK Sperm Donors | Cumberland UK Sperm Donors | Derbyshire UK Sperm Donors | Devon UK Sperm Donors | Dorset UK Sperm Donors | Durham UK Sperm Donors | Essex UK Sperm Donors | Gloucestershire UK Sperm Donors | Hampshire UK Sperm Donors | Herefordshire UK Sperm Donors | Hertfordshire UK Sperm Donors | Huntingdonshire UK Sperm Donors | Kent UK Sperm Donors | Lancashire UK Sperm Donors | Leicestershire UK Sperm Donors | Lincolnshire UK Sperm Donors | Middlesex UK Sperm Donors | Norfolk UK Sperm Donors | Northamptonshire UK Sperm Donors | Northumberland UK Sperm Donors | Nottinghamshire UK Sperm Donors | Oxfordshire UK Sperm Donors | Rutland UK Sperm Donors / |Shropshire UK Sperm Donors | Somerset UK Sperm Donors | Staffordshire UK Sperm Donors | Suffolk UK Sperm Donors | Surrey UK Sperm Donors | Sussex UK Sperm Donors | Warwickshire UK Sperm Donors | Westmorland UK Sperm Donors | Wiltshire UK Sperm Donors |
Worcestershire UK Sperm Donors
Yorkshire UK Sperm Donors 

Back to top

 

Sperm Donor Wanted / Co-Parenting Wanted - Message Boards
View Public Message Boards for your country and area- Messages placed by
DIY Baby Members and Non-Members

FSDW Sperm Donors Wanted in the USA

Alabama / Alaska / Arizona / Arkansas / California/ Colorado/ Connecticut / Delaware/ Florida/ Georgia/ Hawaii/ Idaho State/ Illinois / Indiana / Iowa / Kansas / Kentucky / Louisiana/ Maine/ Maryland/ Massachusetts / Michigan / Minnesota / Mississippi / Missouri / Montana / Nebraska / Nevada / New Hampshire /New Jersey / New Mexico/ New York / North Carolina / North Dakota/ Ohio/ Oklahoma/ Oregon/ Pennsylvania/ Rhode Island / South Carolina / South Dakota / Tennessee / Texas/ Utah / Vermont / Virginia / Washington/ West Virginia /Wisconsin / Wyoming Capital

Sperm Donors wanted in Australia - Sperm Donor Wanted in Australia

Sperm Donors wanted inCanada
- Sperm Donor Wanted in Canada

Sperm Donors wanted in New Zealand
- Sperm Donor Wanted in New Zealand

Sperm Donors wanted in Other Countries
- Sperm Donors Wanted in Other Countries

Back to top

DIY Baby™- Could you be a DIY Baby™ Hero and donate sperm to help single women,
lesbian and infertile couples become pregnant through artificial insemination (AI)?
Register as a sperm donor now- we help you connect with women and couples in the members only area, make your own arrangement!

 
 
Members and DIY Baby Heroes Please Login Here! Connect in the members only area! Find a sperm donor in the members only area!
DIY Baby™ Heros make dreams
come true
. Thank you for your gift!
Browse Basic Profiles for FREE
before you subscribe as a member.

As a FSDW/ DIY Baby member
you can then view complete
DIY Baby™ Hero (sperm donor) profiles.
As a member you can contact any
of the 2000+ registered DIY Baby™
Heroes (sperm donors) donors directly,
in the Member's Only Area and make
your own arrangement.
Support, advice and info offered
to all members, especially if this
feels new, and a bit strange!

CLICK HERE NOW to view
basic sperm donor profiles
before joining.


As a DIY Baby Subscriber and
registered 'DIY Baby Hero' you
agree to abide by the Behaviour Code
Sperm Donor Wanted/
Co-Parenting Wanted?
Visit the Public Message Boards,
for Members & Non-Members

View ALL Public Message Boards
- CLICK HERE

Add your 'Sperm Donor'
or 'Co-Parenting Wanted
message here -
FREE messages
offered to all new subscribers!

 

Your advertising and sponsorship helps Emma to maintain the site herself, and reach millions of women, infertile couples and potential sperm donors.


 

 

Your advertising and sponsorship helps Emma to maintain the site herself, and reach millions of women, infertile couples and potential sperm donors.

 

 

 

 


 

Your advertising and sponsorship helps Emma to maintain the site herself, and reach millions of women, infertile couples and potential sperm donors.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your advertising and sponsorship helps Emma to maintain the site herself, and reach millions of women, infertile couples and potential sperm donors.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your advertising and sponsorship helps Emma to maintain the site herself, and reach millions of women, infertile couples and potential sperm donors.

 

 

 

 

 

Your advertising and sponsorship helps Emma to maintain the site herself, and reach millions of women, infertile couples and potential sperm donors.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your advertising and sponsorship helps Emma to maintain the site herself, and reach millions of women, infertile couples and potential sperm donors.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your advertising and sponsorship helps Emma to maintain the site herself, and reach millions of women, infertile couples and potential sperm donors.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your advertising and sponsorship helps Emma to maintain the site herself, and reach millions of women, infertile couples and potential sperm donors.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your advertising and sponsorship helps Emma to maintain the site herself, and reach millions of women, infertile couples and potential sperm donors.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


Free Sperm Donations Worldwide   Surrogacy Sisters Adoption Connection Egg Donors Worldwide 2009 © Copyright DIY Baby. Linked with FSDW
Fertility Choices Group All rights reserved. Australian ABN Footprint Solutions 94 542 903 967